Trust us â we know that first dates are some of the most awkward situations that a guy will ever find them in. It really is rough on the lady as well! There are ways that you can make the whole process a whole lot easier on the both of you, and all you have to do is avoid these five common screw ups that way too many guys make on first dates. Are any of you guilty of these first date fuck ups?
Trying to impress her with cash.
This is the number one mistake made by way to many guys â especially those who are used to having their income get their way. Even if youâre a multi-gazillioaire who spends money like water, save the black credit cards for another date. You donât need to pay for the cab ride, the dinner, the drinks, the movie and the cab ride back â offer to go halves or at least pay in rounds. You probably donât want a chick thatâs only after your cash â so just think of it in reverse. She doesnât want a guy who only wants to splash it out. This goes for gifts on the first date as well. Seriously â you just met. Keep the roses at the florist for now.
Being way too open, way too soon.
Donât forget to leave a bit of mystery behind. Your new date doesnât need to know your life story within two hours of meeting you. Strike a balance between giving her enough information to actually allow her to go get to know you. This will also help prevent you from dominating the conversation, and let her get a few words in as well.
Not being ready for the date itself.
Take a shower. Comb your hair. Put on some clean clothes (preferably ironed ones). Get deodorant on. Donât go crazy on the cologne. Make sure youâve got enough money to cover the night. Have a condom. Know where youâre meeting her. Youâd think these were all basics that every guy should sort out in the hours before a date but the number of guy friends I have that go from the office right to their first date just makes me shake my head in shame.
Missing the âmake your moveâ signals.
Way too many fellas get anxious over the whole âdo I kiss her or notâ problem. Guys â itâs as simple as this. If you think the date is going well enough to warrant a kiss â DO THE KISS. If youâre truly clueless, look for some signals. Is she touching you â especially your arms and hands? Is she sitting close enough to be kissing distance? Is she looking at you in the face but not saying much? Go ahead guys. Lean in for that smooch.
Not being yourself.
Iâm guessing that you and your potential date had at least a few exchanges prior to your first night out. Iâm also guessing that you didnât put up some big fake front as to who you are. Donât change that plan. If youâre going on a date with someone that you could actually see having a long term relationship with, donât pretend to be someone that you arenât. Not only is it going to conflict with the âyouâ that your date has already got to know (and obviously likes to agree to a date) itâs going to be hard to keep up this fake persona long term!
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